Introduction: Sales Anxiety
In the dynamic world of entrepreneurship and high-ticket consulting, mastering the art of sales calls is non-negotiable. As Tanner Chidester, CEO of Elite CEOs, I’ve navigated the high-stakes arena of sales and emerged with strategies that not only boost conversion rates but also address a common nemesis of many entrepreneurs: sales anxiety.
Quick answer: How do I get over anxiety before sales calls?
Stop focusing on the no and start focusing on the yes. A no leaves you exactly where you started, so the downside is tiny. Sales is a numbers game. One campaign of mine got 130,000 clicks, 262 people applied for a call, and 63 converted. That made half a million dollars, and rejection was part of every win.
- A no on a sales call leaves you where you started, so the real risk is small.
- Focus on the chance of a yes instead of the fear of rejection.
- One campaign drove 130,000 clicks and 262 call applications, and 63 people converted.
- That one campaign made half a million dollars, with plenty of rejection along the way.
- Every no teaches you something that sharpens your next call.
“I’ve navigated the high-stakes arena of sales and emerged with strategies that not only boost conversion rates but also address a common nemesis of many entrepreneurs: sales anxiety.”
The Paralysis of Anxiety
It’s a familiar scene for many – the sweaty palms, the racing heart, the second-guessing. Anxiety before a sales call is akin to the nerves one might feel before approaching someone they’re attracted to. The root of this fear? Rejection. Yet, what’s often overlooked is the status quo. Before the approach, you’re in a neutral state – not rejected, but also not accepted. The outcome of rejection? You remain in that same state, unchanged.

The Sales Call as a Leap of Faith
Consider the sales call as a leap of faith, not dissimilar to asking someone out. The worst outcome is a ‘no’, which leaves you no worse off than before. Yet, the fear of this ‘no’ can be paralyzing. It’s crucial to shift focus from the potential of rejection to the potential of acceptance. What if they say yes? Suddenly, the risk seems worth it.

Sales Anxiety: The Numbers Game
Let’s talk numbers. In a recent campaign, out of 130,000 clicks, 262 applied for a call, and 63 converted, generating half a million dollars. The rejection rate? High. The reward? Substantial. Success in sales, as in life, is often a numbers game where rejection is not only expected but necessary.

Embracing Rejection for Growth
Rejection should be seen not as a setback but as a step forward. Each ‘no’ is a learning opportunity, a chance to refine your approach, and, most importantly, a necessary step towards the ‘yes’ that will change the game. The fear of rejection is a mental barrier, holding you back from potential success.

Sales Anxiety: Moving Forward
To those feeling the weight of sales call anxiety, remember that the status quo is your only competition. The worst that can happen? You remain where you are. But the best? You could close a deal that propels your business to new heights. Embrace rejection, focus on the potential of acceptance, and let the numbers do the talking.
As we navigate the challenges and opportunities of entrepreneurship, let’s shift our perspective on rejection and sales call anxiety. It’s not about avoiding ‘no’ but about chasing the ‘yes’ that lies just beyond it.
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Frequently asked questions
Why do salespeople get nervous before sales calls?
Most sales call nerves come from fear of rejection. It feels like walking up to someone you are attracted to. But a no does not take anything from you. You end up exactly where you were before the call. Once you see the downside is that small, the nerves lose most of their power.
Is closing sales calls really a numbers game?
Yes. Rejection is built into the process. In one campaign we got 130,000 clicks, 262 people applied for a call, and 63 converted. That one campaign made half a million dollars. Most people said no or never booked. The ones who said yes paid for everything. You need volume and you need to expect the no.
How should a salesperson deal with rejection on sales calls?
Treat every no as data. Each rejection shows you what to tweak in your pitch, your questions or your offer. Use it to sharpen the next call. The no is not the end of the road, it is part of the path to the next yes. The people who win in sales are the ones who keep dialing after hearing no.
What is the real competitor on a sales call?
The status quo. Most prospects do not pick a competitor, they pick doing nothing. Your job is to show them why staying where they are costs more than moving forward. Same goes for you as the seller. If anxiety stops you from making the call, the status quo wins and nobody gets helped.
Written by Tanner Chidester, founder and CEO of Elite CEOs. He has done over $150M in sales, worked with 50,000+ clients, and hosts the Infinite Income Podcast.






